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"When a girl is raped by a man, since she is no longer a virgin, it is usually believed that the best way to solve the problem is to get them married, especially if the man is not already married" - UN report


Story in full rape victims in Turkey can be forced by their own families to marry their rapists - or risk being killed in the name of family honour, according to a United Nations report released today.
The report, by the United Nations Population Fund, is the first in-depth study in Turkey of the different motivations behind "honour-killings", where women and young girls are murdered by their relatives for allegedly bringing shame on the family.
Human rights activists estimate that hundreds of Turkish women are murdered in such killings each year.
The issue is a major concern for the European Union, which is monitoring human rights improvements made by Turkey in its attempt to join the EU by 2015.
Many such killings take place in poorer communities where family life is dominated by patriarchal and tribal traditions.
The UN report reveals that in such communities, women who have been raped are often seen as having dishonoured their families.
"When a girl is raped by a man, since she is no longer a virgin, it is usually believed that the best way to solve the problem is to get them married, especially if the man is not already married," the report says.
It goes on: "If the man is already married and the raped girl is pregnant, this creates a more complicated situation and usually ends in the girl's murder."
The report suggests that the practice of forcing rape victims to marry their attackers had been partly reinforced by an earlier, but now obsolete, Turkish penal code.
This stipulated that if a rapist married his victim, his penalty would be suspended and if he stayed married to her for five years, it would be cancelled completely.
The UN report, which is based on interviews with more than 250 people in Istanbul and other cities with large Kurdish populations, details several such cases.
One involved the rape of a mentally challenged girl. "The brothers of the girl offered her in marriage to the man and said that they would pay all wedding costs, all in an effort to avoid gossip," the report says.
"In the end, they shot the man dead. Later, they threw the girl into a water channel.
"Somehow the girl was not hurt; she was saved and then she was sent to another place through [social] organisations. However, the family is still after her."
The UN report will make depressing reading for the government of Recep Tayyip Erdogan, the prime minister, which was told last month by the European Commission that it needs to accelerate reforms.
Women's rights was one of the areas singled out by Brussels as needing particular attention.
A report by the European Commission said earlier this month that there had been "little progress regarding women's rights ... the main areas of concern for women in Turkey continue to be domestic violence, 'honour killings', a high illiteracy rate, and low participation in parliament, local representative bodies and the labour market".
The government has recently taken a tougher stand: a new penal code makes honour killings punishable with life sentences. But prosecution is difficult, as honour killings are often passed off as suicides and some are never discovered.
Apart from rape, the report defines other situations where a woman from such a community might be murdered.
A married women who has an affair, runs away with another man, or who leaves or divorces her husband might be at risk of being hunted down and killed.
Similarly, a divorced woman, who is often still regarded as the property of her former husband, might be murdered if she starts seeing another man. Unmarried girls who have a boyfriend are also at risk.
In some "honour" crimes, the families involved may come to another settlement.
The report gives details of the practice of "Berdel", where a young girl from one family is given to another to compensate for a grievance. Sometimes the gift is a car or gun instead of a girl.
What emerges from the report is a picture of a segment of Turkish society in which notions of "honour" are deeply ingrained, even among comparatively educated people.
"i'm definitely against divorce," the report quotes one 34-year-old, secondary school educated man from the south-eastern city of Batman as saying. "If my wife is unfaithful to me, i will either kill her, or if she has a brother, an older brother, i will tell him: 'You kill her.'"
Although the Turkish parliament now has a special committee on "honour killings", so far there have been few concerted state efforts to address the issue.
Much of the interest and funding for existing research has come from abroad.
State intervention is not always easy. The UN report points out that many of the communities where such killings take place are in areas which have a large Kurdish population.



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Father and uncle jailed for 'barbaric' murder

RUSSELL JACKSON
A FATHER and uncle were jailed for life yesterday for the "barbaric" honour killing of a young woman for falling in love with the wrong man.
The victim's father Mahmod Mahmod, 54, and her 51-year-old uncle Ari Mahmod were jailed for a minimum of 20 and 23 years respectively.

At the Old Bailey, they were convicted of plotting to kill Banaz Mahmod because she had brought "shame" on the family.
The 20-year-old was gang raped, subjected to sexually degrading acts and tortured during a two-and-a half hour ordeal before she was strangled and her neck stamped on "to get her soul out".
She had warned police she felt her life was at risk but nothing was done. A number of officers now face a disciplinary hearing.
Ms Mahmod was murdered because she left her unhappy arranged marriage of three years and secretly began a relationship with Rahmat Suleimani.
Her family were incensed that Mr Rahmat, an Iranian Kurd, was not from their part of the Kurdish community and feared that Ms Mahmod would shame them. Mahmod Mahmod and Ari Mahmod attempted to kill her on New Year's Eve in 2005, but she managed to escape.
But days before she disappeared, four men, including Mohamad Hama, a family friend, tried to abduct Mr Rahmat.
Hama was one of the main ringleaders who took a "leading part" in the murder. In a covert prison recording, he said: "Her [Ms Mahmod's] soul and her life would not leave. It took over half and hour. I was kicking and stamping on her neck to get the soul out."
Ms Mahmod's badly decomposed body was found stuffed inside a suitcase buried in the garden of a house in Birmingham three months after she disappeared in January 2006.
Her father and businessman uncle both denied murder but were found guilty by an Old Bailey jury in June. Hama, 30, pleaded guilty to murder before the trial began and must serve a minimum of 17 years.
Speaking outside the court, Mr Rahmat said he had tried to commit suicide on more than one occasion.
He added: "She was my future. I cannot understand why anyone would hurt someone with the sweet personality Banaz had."

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Banaz Mahmod warned police she would be murdered.
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Father ordered daughter's 'honour killing' because her romance shamed the family

JOHN-PAUL FORD ROJAS
A FATHER was found guilty yesterday of murdering his 20-year-old daughter in an "honour killing".
Banaz Mahmod was strangled and buried in a suitcase in a back garden.

Her father, Mahmod Mahmod, and his brother, Ari Mahmod, ordered the murder because they believed that she had shamed the family by continuing a relationship with a man they did not approve of.
Banaz told police four times that she feared they wanted to kill her, even writing a letter naming those she thought would do it - one of whom later admitted his part in the killing and two who fled the country.
On another occasion, her fears were dismissed by a female police officer, who thought she had made up the story to get her boyfriend's attention.
The policewoman is one of a number of officers facing an internal disciplinary investigation over the handling of the case.
Yesterday Mahmod, 52, and Ari, 51, both from Mitcham, south London, were found guilty of Banaz's murder following a trial lasting nearly three months.
Banaz had helped to convict them from beyond the grave with a video message played to jurors in which she told how she feared she was going to die.
She recorded the footage, in which she said she was "really scared", following an earlier attempt by her father to kill her on New Year's Eve 2005.
Banaz fled, but later returned to her family and tried to carry on the relationship with her boyfriend, Rahmat Sulemani, in secret.
But when they were discovered and Mr Sulemani was threatened by Ari's associates, she contacted police again.
Banaz was urged to stay at a safe house but she told officers she believed that she would be all right at home because her mother was there.
However, the following day, on 24 January, she disappeared. Her decomposed body was discovered in Handsworth, Birmingham, three months later.
Mohamad Hama, 30, of West Norwood, south London, an associate of Ari, has already pleaded guilty to the murder.
Darbaz Maref-Rasull, 24, of Hounslow, west London, was cleared of conspiracy to pervert the course of justice. Ari was convicted of the charge.
Pshtewan Hama, 26, also of Hounslow, has already pleaded guilty on the same count.
Neither Mahmod nor Ari showed any emotion as the verdicts were delivered. They were both remanded in custody to be sentenced at a later date.
Mr Sulemani shook his fist in celebration and wiped tears from his eyes as he watched the jury return with its decision.
In an interview released at the end of the trial, the 29-year-old told how his dreams of his and Banaz's future together had been crushed when she was murdered, and how her family's apparent respectability concealed a "dark side".
But he also described how he initially had to harass police officers to make them believe Banaz had gone missing, and they had not taken seriously her claims that she was under threat.
Mr Sulemani said he hoped they had learnt lessons about the culture of honour killings and in future would take action "before it's too late".
He sat in court yesterday alongside Banaz's elder sister, Bekhal Mahmod, 22, who gave evidence at the trial about the terror she endured at the hands of their father.
She told the jury that she was labelled a "whore" and beaten when she made herself "westernised" by putting on hairspray or gel.
Her uncle, Ari, told her that for the crime of being seen speaking to a male friend she deserved to be "turned to ashes".



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Jasvinder Sanghera. Picture: Graham Jepson


The high price of freedom CATHERINE DEVENEY
FOUR months after she ran away from home at the age of 15, Jasvinder Sanghera saw the sea for the first time. A granite sea that stretched out from the silver sands of Whitley Bay as far as the eye could see, and seemed somehow infinite in its possibilities. She had always felt the horizons of the world were more expansive than her family told her.
That's why she had run away, refusing to submit to the forced marriage that her Sikh parents wanted for her. For all the trauma her decision cost her - her family never fully accepted her again - the unexpected vastness of the sea comforted her, endorsing her decision. "I just thought, 'Wow!' I had been out of Derby before, but only to visit relatives. This was a feeling of... almost like the sea was telling me there was more in the world."


Water seems shapeless, powerless, impotent, until it is harnessed by tide and intent. There is a similar paradox about Sanghera. She is gentle and dignified, her voice as quiet as softly lapping waves, so quiet that at first you strain to hear her. Then, as her story unfolds, you gradually sense the enormous power that can be unleashed from her, waves of courage and determination emboldening her voice, until a gentle tide of tears pulls it back to a whisper. She now runs Karma Nirvana, a Derby-based project providing refuge for Asian women - women forced into marriages they do not want, or seeking refuge from abusive partners.
Sanghera has defied her own community by doing this work. They disown her. Her own sisters walk by her in the street. She has panic buttons in her home because of threatened violence and bought herself a dog last year for extra protection. But in her own quiet way, she remains steadfast against the force of opposing tides.
Her mother always said that Jasvinder was the most difficult of her daughters. She was born in hospital while her sisters were born at home, and her mother hated hospitals. And she was born upside down. Always awkward, her mother said. Like the questions she asked. Why did the women sit on one side of the gurdwara, the Sikh temple, while men sat on the other? Why did her brother Balbir have a different life to his sisters, with so much freedom, so much indulgence? Why could Jasvinder not go to university? Why was she not allowed to talk to boys or to choose her own husband? Her mother interpreted her curiosity as defiance, and became enraged, taking off her shoe and hitting out at her daughter. Insolent child. Why must she always question?
Silence was expected of girls. "If you saw my family you would have thought, 'How wonderful they are, how close-knit! So connected as a family.' But that was really about keeping you out. The perception that we are so close is actually preventing you from scratching the surface and seeing what is really there."
Each of her sisters in turn was taken away to India and married to a stranger, then returned. Her sister Robina, who was only a year and a half older than Jasvinder, was removed from school and then returned to the year below without any questions being asked. Often people don't like to interfere. "This fear we have of political correctness angers me. A wrong is a wrong. It's not part of a culture to force people to marry, to treat them like this, to disown them."
Every year in Britain, the Forced Marriage Unit, run jointly by the Home Office and the Foreign and Commonwealth Office, deals with 300 cases of forced marriage in Britain - a third of which involve minors. These public cases are the tip of the iceberg, says Sanghera. Her work has led her to believe that Scotland has a particular problem, yet the Scottish Executive has told her it does not have the funds to tackle the issue. Why, demands Sanghera, are we not all making more fuss? Asian women are taught to be voiceless. It is up to the rest of us to make a noise for them.
Both Sanghera's parents are dead now. She loved them, but she came to understand that they could never love her as she loves her own children: unconditionally. For much of her adult life, she says, she waited for affection from her family the way a puppy waits for leftovers from the table. It never came. Now her book Shame gives voice to both her story and the stories of the many silent women she helps at Karma Nirvana. "Part of making sense of it all was writing it down," she explains. "As a child, I was taught to be silent. Now I have broken that silence. There is nothing more they can do. It is almost like they have no hold over me any more."
SANGHERA'S father moved from the Punjab to Britain in the 1950s, swapping a life working the land with bullock-pulled ploughs to working in a Derby foundry. His wife arrived seven years later. His first wife had died of a snake bite, so, according to custom, he married her sister. Like many encouraged by a British government recruitment drive, he came in search of a better life for his new family.
He had six daughters and one son in Britain, but Sanghera never saw her mother and father show any affection to each other. They did not even share a bedroom. "I think that was how we were taught to be reserved and not show affection." But did her parents love one another? "I think they did the only thing they knew how to do. I don't know if it was love."
Sanghera adored her father, but while in the outside world the men seemed dominant, in the family it was the women who upheld customs and traditions. Her father never intervened. Down the road from their house was the red-brick building with silver domes that governed their lives: the gurdwara, or temple. The local gossip shop, Sanghera says. Her mother was terrified that her children would do anything to sully the family's reputation. At best, it meant your family became gossip fodder. At worst, it meant being disowned by the community. Respect was important to her mother. She always reminded her children that they were of a high caste and must not talk to those of a lower caste.
Sanghera watched as each sister was married off to a stranger of suitable background. First the photograph would arrive from India. Next her mother would begin collecting yards of fine fabric, rivers of rich, bright colours and delicately embroidered patterns, storing them in a trunk. Then the sister would disappear quietly, and Sanghera would discover that she had been taken to India to be married to a stranger.
It was too close for comfort when Robina left. "We didn't dare ask questions about why this was happening. This goes back to the secrecy and the silence of the family. She was taken out of school, sent abroad to get married and then she went back to school and was put in my year. No one asked any questions."
Robina was a different person on her return. "She just turned into this silent being. Her whole persona changed. Even her dress changed. All of a sudden she was wearing traditional dress and being put on show when people visited the house. She was no longer the sibling, the playmate. Then, at 16, she disappeared to go and be with her husband in Germany. I was really saddened by that."
When Sanghera was 14, it was her turn to be sent a photograph. She was horrified when her mother showed it to her. She wanted to finish school, to go to university. Secretly, she began seeing Jassey, the older brother of a school friend who worked in a local engineering works. When she told her mother that she could not get married because she had a boyfriend, her mother erupted in fury. The girl would be locked in her room whenever she was alone in the house.
One evening she heard a sound at her window. Looking out, she saw Jassey under the streetlamp, acting out a mime. He loved her, wanted to run away with her. Plans were laid. Secret calls. Surreptitiously passed notes. When her older sister forgot to lock the door one day, Sanghera simply took her chances and ran, turning up at the engineering works as Jassey finished his shift. Jassey walked away from his job, his family, his life, to help her.
For many months they existed in squalid bedsits. Sanghera suffered badly from depression. She had wanted to run away from marriage, not from her family. She resented Jassey's family accepting him back because he was a boy, while hers would not. "You are dead in our eyes," her mother told her when she phoned, hoping to heal the rift. She told her daughter she never wanted to see her again. Sanghera had to go through marriage and pregnancy alone, though Robina did bring her mother to the hospital to see the first baby, Natasha. Her mother simply looked in the cradle once, said nothing and left early.
As a child, Sanghera had watched her sisters' marriages falter in turn. One of her strongest childhood memories is of going to their houses on a Sunday while her mother tried to deal with their marital problems. Even when physical abuse was involved, her mother ignored her daughters' bruises, refused to countenance separation, and simply insisted that they learn to pacify their husbands better. Sanghera hated those visits. She would sit quietly against the wall, listening, watching her father's uncomfortable silence. "I always thought we were going to rescue them, bring them home. We never did."
Several of the marriages ultimately ended. So why did the sisters continue to disown Sanghera? Because they had initially submitted to their arranged marriages, she explains. She was the only one who didn't. And because they didn't dare embrace someone the community had rejected - her. "If you seek independence, they see it as a threat: 'Go to college or university - where did these ideas come from? You will follow the path like the rest of us.'"
Perhaps the truth is that if her sisters - and even her mother - acknowledged Sanghera's right to behave as she did, it would invalidate their own lives. Perhaps they resented not having the courage she did. "I think deep down inside, though they will never admit it, my sisters want this life. They can be spiteful to me, but ultimately I think I did what they could only think about doing."
Yet when their marriages fell apart, it was to Sanghera they turned. And when the community accepted them back (because at least they had submitted to the marriage in the first place), they turned their backs again on their black-sheep sister. Sanghera's own life was difficult. She had two children with Jassey, but admits that she never really loved him as she should have. He was kind and caring and considerate, but they were thrown together because he was the only person who could get her out of her predicament. She was grateful. But gratitude wasn't enough to build a life on.
Neither was obedience. But the interesting thing about Sanghera's life is that, despite her obvious defiance, on a subconscious level her craving for the love and acceptance of her family and community influenced her choices. She behaved with the self-destructiveness of the abused woman whose partners all turn out to be violent. While married to Jassey, she had an affair with an Asian man who revealed himself to be traditional, violent and obsessively jealous. Her seemingly forward-thinking second husband also turned out to be less progressive after marriage, and was a bullying womaniser. When Robina's marriage collapsed, she too chose a man who was physically abusive. Was that coincidence? Or were these women subconsciously tying themselves back into the community, in search of acceptance? Perhaps their feelings of failure made them feel they deserved no better. "Maybe it was the kind of victim-blaming scenario," admits Sanghera: "'I deserve this because I had been told in my lifetime that I would amount to nothing.'
"The biggest impact on me was when my mum told me I was dead in her eyes. 'But, Mum, what did I do? Can I come back?' 'No, you can't.' All the love you could have given me would not replace the love of my family. Imagine waking up tomorrow and never seeing a member of your family again, being told that you are this prostitute on the streets - because that's what my mother said. My whole family set me up to fail, they willed it on me."
When Sanghera realised that Robina was trapped with a violent man, she encouraged her to seek help. The family called in a respected member of the local community - a man who would later become the lord mayor of Derby. He simply instructed Robina to go home to her violent husband. Robina's mother agreed, refusing her daughter sanctuary in her home.
Robina's story ended in tragedy. Driven to desperation, she told her husband that she was going upstairs to set herself alight. "On you go, then," he told her. She poured paraffin on herself and set it on fire. She died from her horrific injuries. When she was laid in her coffin, the lid was kept closed, with only a picture on the outside to identify her. Sanghera was told to stay away from the funeral, but she refused. "When I went to the house defiantly, my sisters walked out of the room like a bad smell had entered. I thought, 'She's dead, she died horrifically, and you can still treat me like this?'"
At the funeral, she felt contempt for her own people. "I looked around at the family and the people from the Asian community, and the lack of remorse in their faces... They thought it was almost an honourable thing that she'd done. The fact that they could stand there like a bunch of hypocrites and cry crocodile tears... They could have prevented her death. It was the injustice of it. Nobody ever spoke about her again."
Sanghera hoped that her sister's death would bring reconciliation with her mother, but it didn't. "My mother's cold response to me really hurt me. I thought when Robina died she would embrace me. The loss of a daughter would make her think, 'I have to embrace this daughter that I have shunned.' But she didn't, and that spoke volumes to me. That was the day I mentally let go of the expectation we have of a mother, a father, a brother, a sister. I realised that you can't make someone love you."
Her mother's health deteriorated after Robina died. "She was this bold, proud, strong woman, quite a defiant being in her own way, but when Robina died she shrivelled - it was like a light had gone off inside her."
Before her mother's death, Sanghera became partially reconciled with her, but she had to visit secretly, so the rest of the family and the community wouldn't know. They never talked about the lost years and the reason for them, but when her mother died Sanghera felt despair. Her mother's life had been a narrow river of convention, not a great sea of possibilities. "Her last words were, 'Robina, I'm coming to you.'"
SOME would argue that criticising arranged marriage is racist. It is, they say, a cultural tradition that is statistically far more successful than western 'love matches'. The Forced Marriage Unit makes a distinction between this "valued tradition" of arranged marriage and the "duress" involved in forced marriage. But Sanghera finds this distinction difficult to accept. "It's not as easy as that. My sisters went like sheep. There was a huge sense of obligation to the family to go through with it, and there was a lot of emotional pressure. You have to acknowledge that in arranged marriages there can be psychological abuse, and that rather than face the prospect of losing your family, you go through with it."
Sanghera eventually broke free from the psychological abuse that ruled so many of her life choices. She left her second husband and, despite struggling on her own with three young children, managed to get a first-class honours degree.
She has found happiness with a new partner, but he is white and she says she could not now be with a member of her own community. "It doesn't matter how progressive an Asian man is. My second husband appeared to be independent and forward-thinking, but at the end of the day what mattered to him was what his mother thought.
"I think most Asian men will ultimately have to stand up for their partners and face that dilemma. Whether they are strong enough to do that, I don't know, but I certainly don't want to take that risk any more. It means you get pulled back into that community, the dynamics, the family, all that struggle - and I don't want that in my life any more."
Yet she is proud to be an Asian woman. She loves Indian food, Indian music, Indian festivals and colour. She loves the fact that her parents came from the Punjab, that they embarked on such an enormous adventure for the sake of their children. But not one member of her Indian family speaks to her now. She would like to be both Indian and British, but she has been forced to choose - she chooses the part that offers freedom and independence. "I always say that if you show me a truly independent Asian woman, there has been some loss attached to earning that position. I have had to fight hard for this space. And I have no intention of letting it go." r
• Shame (£12.99, Hodder & Stoughton), by Jasvinder Sanghera, is out now
The price of love: four victims of an unforgiving custom

SAMAIRA NAZIR (25)

Samaira, a recruitment consultant from London, was murdered in a savage attack in front of her family in April 2005. She was stabbed 18 times by her brother and had her throat cut by their 17-year-old cousin at the family home. Samaira had fallen in love with an asylum-seeker from Afghanistan and rejected the suitors her Pakistani family wanted her to marry. According to Nazir Afzal of the Crown Prosecution Service, "Samaira was murdered because she loved the wrong person, in her family's eyes. In that sense, it was an 'honour killing', to protect the family's status and mark their disapproval."
BANAZ MAHMOD BABAKIR AGHA (20)

Banaz, from London, disappeared in January last year. Her remains were found three months later, decomposing in a suitcase buried in the garden of a house in Birmingham, more than 100 miles away from her family home.
The previous summer, Banaz, who was of Kurdish origin, had walked out of an arranged marriage which had lasted three years before ending in divorce. Her father, uncle and another man have been charged with her murder, while two other men were charged with perverting the course of justice.
RUKSHANA NAZ (19)

Rukshana, from Derby, who was forced into marriage at 16, died because her parents believed she was pregnant as the result of an adulterous affair. She had been forced into an arranged marriage in Pakistan and had two children by her husband.
It was reported that Rukshana's family were angry that she had become pregnant by her boyfriend in England while she was still married (she was six months pregnant when she died). Her mother and brother were jailed for life in 1999 after her brother strangled her while her mother held her down.
SHAFILEA AHMED (17)

Shortly before she disappeared in 2003, Shafilea, from Warrington, had been in Pakistan, where it is alleged that she turned down a suitor in an arranged marriage. She then swallowed bleach, badly scarring her throat - an injury that required continuing medical attention when she returned home. A nationwide hunt was launched when she failed to turn up for treatment for her damaged throat. In 2004, her body was found in the River Kent. The investigation into her death remains ongoing. Eight members of her family are awaiting trial for conspiracy to pervert the course of justice.




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Killed by her brother and cousin ... for falling in love with an asylum seeker

SHENAI RAIF
THE brother and the cousin of a young woman who fell in love with the "wrong man" were given life sentences yesterday for her "barbaric" honour killing.
Samaira Nazir, a 25-year-old graduate and recruitment consultant, was stabbed 18 times in a savage attack in front of other family members - including two nieces.


The Old Bailey was told she was killed because she had fallen in love with an asylum seeker from Afghanistan and rejected suitors her family wanted her to marry.
The jury heard the Pakistani family disapproved of Salman Mohammed, accusing him of being after their money.
Miss Nazir was attacked at the family home in Abbotts Road, Southall, west London, in April last year by her brother, Azhar, 30, and their cousin, Imran Mohammed, 17.
The judge, Christopher Moss, told them: "This was a barbaric crime. She suffered a brutal, gruesome and horrific death."
Nazir, a greengrocer, was yesterday jailed for life with a minimum term of 20 years.
Imran Mohammed was detained for a minimum term of ten years.
Mr Moss said: "Samaira Nazir was an accomplished young woman who was murdered by members of her family because she insisted on marrying someone deemed unsuitable."
The attack was witnessed in the family home by two young nieces, who were spattered with blood.
When Miss Nazir tried to escape, she was dragged back into the house by her brother.
She died after being stabbed 18 times and having her throat cut by Imran Mohammed, a youth with low intellect, who had "carried out the sentence of death passed".
The judge told Nazir: "You were her judge and jury, although you may not have been alone.
"You claimed to have loved your sister, but were guilty of orchestrating her murder."
The judge lifted a ban on identifying Imran Mohammed, a distant cousin of Miss Nazir, who treated him like another brother.
Miss Nazir's businessman father, who had also been arrested and bailed for the killing, fled to Pakistan and was claimed by the family to have died there.
Outside the court, Detective Inspector John Reid said: "This was a brutal and appalling murder of a girl because she fell in love with a man that her family did not approve of."
Nazir Afzal, area director of the Crown Prosecution Service, added: "Samaira was murdered because she loved the wrong person, in her family's eyes. In that sense, it was an 'honour killing' to protect the perceived status of the family, to mark their disapproval.
"We hope that Samaira's death and the investigation and prosecution that followed will deter others who may wish to harm their own family members because of practices that are as tragic as they are outdated."
The court was told that Nazir tried to pin the blame on Imran Mohammed after police found Miss Nazir in what was described as a bloodbath.
Sally Howes, QC, prosecuting, told the jury: "She was murdered in her own home where she bled to death following a horrific attack during which she was beaten and had multiple stab wounds.
"The defendants acted together by stabbing Samaira and holding on to her to prevent her escaping."
Miss Nazir had met Salman Mohammed in 2000, shortly after he arrived in the UK in the back of a lorry and found his way to her brother's shop in Southall Broadway.
The two men became friends, and Mr Mohammed fell in love with Miss Nazir after being befriended by the rest of the family and setting up phone card stalls.
Ms Howes told the court: "They fell in love and wanted to marry, but realised their relationship would not be met with approval by the Nazir family. They kept their relationship a secret.
"Samaira approached the subject of her marriage with her brother. His reaction was one of anger. The situation reached crisis point."
Nazir claimed that Mr Mohammed was "only after the family money".
He had told Miss Nazir's boyfriend on the telephone: "We can get you anywhere if you get married, even if you are not in this country."
The couple had last seen each other about an hour before Miss Nazir was killed, when they tried to talk to her mother at a relative's home.
But her mother had refused, and she and her daughter arrived home in an angry mood.
Neighbours heard cries for help from the house and at one point, Miss Nazir ran to her car but was followed by her brother, said Ms Howes.
When police arrived, they found Samaira dead, slumped in the hall, surrounded by blood. A silk scarf had been tied tightly round her neck.
No chance to defend themselves when family feels shamed

STATISTICS on honour killings are rare, as the murders often occur in a family home and go unreported. However, an adviser to the government in Pakistan said there were 450 honour killings in 2002 alone.
Women who refuse forced marriages or marry for love are the most common victim of honour killings - so-called because the perpetrators believed they are protecting the "honour" of their family. The practice is most common in countries following strict Islamic law. Even women who are raped may not be spared as it is most commonly they, not the rapists, who are punished for violating family "honour". A UN report found rape victims in Turkey can be forced by their own families to marry rapists - or risk being killed in the name of family honour.
Many women are condemned to death by so-called family courts. Often the woman is given no chance to explain or defend herself.
Campaigners attempting to stamp out honour killing say it is increasingly being seen in the West, affecting immigrants torn between the more liberal society they have grown up in and the traditions their parents want to maintain.



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